Pregnancy Decisions Impact Both Partners
Pregnancy is a shared journey that begins with both partners because together they carry the responsibility for the decisions and outcomes that follow. Pregnancy decisions, whether leaning toward parenting, adoption, or abortion, impact both individuals. Although the decision is ultimately up to the mother of the baby, the emotional, practical, and relational impact affects guys too.
Emotional Impact
Research has shown that the emotional impact of pregnancy decisions can lead to the father of the baby experiencing emotional reactions such as relief, grief, sadness, and more. Some men also seek supportive counseling programs after a pregnancy decision is made [1].
Practical Impact
Pregnancy decisions have practical impacts on the guy as well. It’s important to understand how your legal rights, financial responsibilities, and daily life will be affected by the pregnancy decision. Grace Place has information and resources to help you navigate and better understand what to expect.
Relationship Impact
Facing unexpected pregnancy can be a pivotal moment which either challenges or deepens the connection between partners. It can deepen your bond through open communication and mutual support, or it may strain the relationship if one partner feels left to navigate decisions alone. Relationships are important, and research shows pregnancy decisions can impact the outcomes of your current relationship [2].
Why Your Viewpoint Matters
As a guy, your viewpoint matters because a pregnancy decision can affect your life – emotionally, practically, and relationally. At Grace Place we’re here for guys to help you navigate this season and be equipped with the information and resources you need. We invite guys to reach out to us any time and to join your partner at her appointment at our center in Farmington, NM. Schedule an appointment today.
1. Coyle, C. (2007). Men and abortion: A review of empirical reports. Internet J of Mental Health, 3(2). Rue, V. (1996). His abortion experience: The effects of abortion on men. Ethics and Medics, 21(4),3-4
2. Coleman, P.K., Rue, V., Spence, M. (2007). Intrapersonal processes and post-abortion relationship challenges: A review and consolidation of relevant literature. The Internet Journal of Mental Health 2007, 4(2).