Understanding Your Adoption Options
Many people don’t realize that adoption isn’t one-size-fits-all. There are different types of adoption, each offering varying levels of involvement and contact with your child’s adoptive family. Understanding these options can help you determine what feels right for your unique circumstances.
- Open Adoption – You select the adoptive family, may meet them before placement, and maintain ongoing contact through visits, calls, or messages as you both agree.
- Semi-Open Adoption – Information such as letters, photos, and updates are shared indirectly through an agency, but without direct in-person contact.
- Closed Adoption – Contact is minimal or none after placement, no identifying information is shared, and records may be sealed.
Each type of adoption has different emotional, legal, and practical considerations, with no single “right” choice for everyone. For example, for some Native American families exploring adoption, the process can involve unique legal and cultural considerations designed to protect tribal heritage and sovereignty. These adoptions may be governed by the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA), a federal law which establishes specific adoption standards for Native American children. Understanding ICWA is a unique need, and we are here to help by connecting you with the information and organizations that specialize in these standards.
It’s important to get the information you need specific to your journey and to think through the long-term outcomes of each option.
Local Resources and Support
New Mexico has adoption agencies serving San Juan County and throughout the state, and Grace Place is your first-stop resource for getting started. We provide a safe, judgment-free space where you can learn about all your pregnancy options, talk with someone who will listen to your concerns, and receive referrals to trusted local community resources. Our goal is to equip you with the information and support you need to move forward with confidence.
Take the First Steps
If you’re considering adoption or simply want to explore your options—Grace Place is here for those first few steps:
- Confirm your pregnancy: We offer free pregnancy tests and limited ultrasound services.
- Get a pregnancy options consultation: Talk with a caring team member who will help you explore all paths available to you without pressure or judgment.
- Get informed: Access information and resources that will empower you to make the decision that’s best for your future.
No one should face this decision alone. Contact Grace Place today to schedule a confidential appointment. We’re here to listen, inform, and support you, whatever you decide.